This weekend was great! I got to go home a little bit early. I ended up being able to come home last Wednesday. Thursday was nice to relax. And then a guy I've sort of been dating got to came over. Yes... A guy! His name is Nick...
So. Back in February, my friend Sam (also one of Thomas's friends, who my friend Jessica is dating right now) set us up on a date. Nick is from Pennsylvania, and served his mission in Salt Lake. He reactivated Sam's stepdad so that's how they know each other. But while he was serving his mission, his family moved to provo. And now he's going to BYU. So, now he's in Provo. Oh, and he took me skiing over Spring Break too and we had a lot of fun. Yep!
Back to the weekend... So Friday, mom and chad and I went to Sills with Biff and Kensie. Then they came over and Kensie found some Easter eggs. We colored a few Easter pictures, and then we dyed some eggs. We had a lot of fun!
Saturday, we got to watch some of conference. And then we had to take Abby (our cat) to the vet. She got in a fight a week before with another cat. haha. Another one... And she's been limping around the house not in a particularly happy mood. So, we got her some kitty drugs and then she started just laying there like a rock even more.
On Sunday, I watched the first part of conference at home as I packed up my car, and then I drove down to Provo. Nick invited me to come over to watch the last session there and do some Easter stuff. So we watched the last part of conference with some of his brothers and a few of their friends. And then ate some food and did an easter egg hunt. It was a lot of fun.
THennnnnn back to Cedar it was.
I woke up this morning and realized I had a test I didn't study for. Oops. But ya know? I think I did alright on it, and I had a lot of fun this weekend so I figure it'll be okay. :-)
4.05.2010
3.28.2010
Sooo Fast
This year has been going by very quickly to me. I can't believe it will be April this week! I don't know where the time has gone, but it has been a fun few months!
Just yesterday I got the chance to go on another trip to St George with my climbing class people. It was really fun! Despite being the coldest I've ever been for the longest I've ever been... and then sudden heat. The first wall we went to was extremely tall, and the sun had not gotten to the side we were climbing on yet. It was blowing wind everywhere and I'm pretty sure it was 10 degrees with the windchill. In the car (which our old teacher got to drive the Toyota Prius from our school's lot of cars, and it was pretty exciting to ride in it), it said the temp outside was about 30 degrees minus the windchill factor of the wind that was blowing so hard we couldn't walk straight. We had short sleeve shirts... and hoodies. We all had our hoods up with our helmets on just for extra warmth. My friend Jessica and I hid behind a little wall and huddled up in balls. haha. It was freezing. We thought we'd be able to wait it out for the sun to reach us and then we'd be okay... Well, after about 2 and a half hours, our teacher decided that the wind wasn't letting up anyway so we should probably head out. We all walked back to the cars while our teachers cleaned up the anchors. Juuuust as we were leaving, the sun hit the spot where we were at (you could see the entire wall from the cars though it was some distance away.) Then we went to the other wall we were at back in January. It was warm, and we actually climbed. haha. I ended up climbing up all the way once despite not getting home until 6pm. But it was really fun and I just love being outside instead of cooped up in this little brown cave of mine in cedar city.
Just yesterday I got the chance to go on another trip to St George with my climbing class people. It was really fun! Despite being the coldest I've ever been for the longest I've ever been... and then sudden heat. The first wall we went to was extremely tall, and the sun had not gotten to the side we were climbing on yet. It was blowing wind everywhere and I'm pretty sure it was 10 degrees with the windchill. In the car (which our old teacher got to drive the Toyota Prius from our school's lot of cars, and it was pretty exciting to ride in it), it said the temp outside was about 30 degrees minus the windchill factor of the wind that was blowing so hard we couldn't walk straight. We had short sleeve shirts... and hoodies. We all had our hoods up with our helmets on just for extra warmth. My friend Jessica and I hid behind a little wall and huddled up in balls. haha. It was freezing. We thought we'd be able to wait it out for the sun to reach us and then we'd be okay... Well, after about 2 and a half hours, our teacher decided that the wind wasn't letting up anyway so we should probably head out. We all walked back to the cars while our teachers cleaned up the anchors. Juuuust as we were leaving, the sun hit the spot where we were at (you could see the entire wall from the cars though it was some distance away.) Then we went to the other wall we were at back in January. It was warm, and we actually climbed. haha. I ended up climbing up all the way once despite not getting home until 6pm. But it was really fun and I just love being outside instead of cooped up in this little brown cave of mine in cedar city.
Me freezing at the beginning
Jessica freezing at the beginning
The view of the hike we have to make back to the car...minus the rocks right below us we had to climb down. If you look closely, you can see a little white dot in the middle of the picture, slightly to the right... that's the car!
These are our warming up faces. Yay!3.09.2010
If you don't have anything nice to say....
I sort of wish people would live by this simple little rule. If you don't have anything nice to say, keep those thoughts to yourself, or change the subject! There are so many better things to talk about and discuss than the failures you recognize of those around you. Everyone makes mistakes so some times it is easy to find faults, so it can be hard to get out of the habit.
Now, I try my best not to judge people for judging others, because I do it too sometimes and I recognize it's a normal, human tendency and it's hard to stop. I try to stop myself, and I like to think I'm getting better at avoiding judgements and seeing people in a more positive light, but I think it's something we can all work on in some way or another though so I wanted to share some of my thoughts on this subject.. It's been on my mind lately as I've been contemplating various things.
When I was younger, probably 9 or 10, my dad and I had a short little conversation that helped to changed my perspective about people and I've never forgotten it. I don't know if he remembers it, but I do. So if you're reading dad, thanks! :-)
It went something like this:
Dad: What do you think of Scrooge??
Me: I don't know. I guess he was a mean, selfish, greedy man. He hated Christmas and didn't like to share or give to others in need.
Dad: Yes, that is what he WAS at the start of the story. Why is it that we always forget what happened at the end of the story? It seems to me that everyone forgets the most important part of this story. The ability for people to change the course of their lives and improve themselves. At the end of the story, Scrooge was a happy man who changed. He apologized to those around him and became a generous giver to the needy.
This helped me think about people differently ever since and now The Chirstmas Carol is one of my favorite Christmas stories. It reminds me of this conversation every year. I always try to give people the benefit of the doubt. I know that I would not want to be judged on one thing I did or said in my life because I know I've done or said many things out of immediate emotion, or even things that were slightly thought out, that I regret and now see as not the best choice, so I try not judge anyone else for one or two things they did or said around me because they probably are not like that as a whole person. Even if someone appears to me to be consistently mean, rude, selfish or whatever... I always remind myself that I don't know why they are the way they are or if they are going through a hard time in their life. We all have the ability to change too and everyone has their own set of strengths and weaknesses. We can choose what we say and think about others and I think that is one of the most important things we can do in life. Learn to love one another, despite our weaknesses, shortcomings, and failures. And for myself, I also need to work on trying not to take things personally when people are trying to point out my own weaknesses or give me constructive criticism... because more often than not, they're right, and I need to do the scrooge like thing and make a change for the better.
So, moral of this post: let's all go be Scrooges... :-)
Now, I try my best not to judge people for judging others, because I do it too sometimes and I recognize it's a normal, human tendency and it's hard to stop. I try to stop myself, and I like to think I'm getting better at avoiding judgements and seeing people in a more positive light, but I think it's something we can all work on in some way or another though so I wanted to share some of my thoughts on this subject.. It's been on my mind lately as I've been contemplating various things.
When I was younger, probably 9 or 10, my dad and I had a short little conversation that helped to changed my perspective about people and I've never forgotten it. I don't know if he remembers it, but I do. So if you're reading dad, thanks! :-)
It went something like this:
Dad: What do you think of Scrooge??
Me: I don't know. I guess he was a mean, selfish, greedy man. He hated Christmas and didn't like to share or give to others in need.
Dad: Yes, that is what he WAS at the start of the story. Why is it that we always forget what happened at the end of the story? It seems to me that everyone forgets the most important part of this story. The ability for people to change the course of their lives and improve themselves. At the end of the story, Scrooge was a happy man who changed. He apologized to those around him and became a generous giver to the needy.
This helped me think about people differently ever since and now The Chirstmas Carol is one of my favorite Christmas stories. It reminds me of this conversation every year. I always try to give people the benefit of the doubt. I know that I would not want to be judged on one thing I did or said in my life because I know I've done or said many things out of immediate emotion, or even things that were slightly thought out, that I regret and now see as not the best choice, so I try not judge anyone else for one or two things they did or said around me because they probably are not like that as a whole person. Even if someone appears to me to be consistently mean, rude, selfish or whatever... I always remind myself that I don't know why they are the way they are or if they are going through a hard time in their life. We all have the ability to change too and everyone has their own set of strengths and weaknesses. We can choose what we say and think about others and I think that is one of the most important things we can do in life. Learn to love one another, despite our weaknesses, shortcomings, and failures. And for myself, I also need to work on trying not to take things personally when people are trying to point out my own weaknesses or give me constructive criticism... because more often than not, they're right, and I need to do the scrooge like thing and make a change for the better.
So, moral of this post: let's all go be Scrooges... :-)
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